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Ask SSIS: How do I tell my partner that I have a STI?

Thank you for writing to SSIS! It is common to feel nervous about bringing up a positive Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) result, but here are some things to keep in mind when you tell your partner about it. First, learning about your result and next treatment steps can help you feel more prepared for your conversation. These next steps are outlined by a health professional, and if you have any more questions about your result or treatment, feel free to ask them! If you’re nervous about what to say, try practicing in the mirror or writing out what you want to say beforehand. You can also think about what your partner may say in response in case you’re nervous about answering any questions they may have. Feel free to stop by SSIS’s office for confidential peer support. A member will gladly roleplay the situation with you and support you in any way they can so you feel ready for the conversation. Once you’re ready, pick a time and place with your partner that allows both of you to be present and comfortable. During the conversation, it may be useful to have some resources and information for you and your partner. Whether that’s what to do moving forward or what the health practitioner might have told you, it can help with knowing what to say. The stigma surrounding STIs can make these conversations difficult, but talking transparently about them can help make future steps easier.

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