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Question: How do I squirt?

Thank you for writing to SSIS! Squirt is the term used to describe the release of fluid as a result of sexual stimulation. Before we get into squirting, let’s demystify the different types of fluid that can come out of the vulva. First off there is vaginal lubrication, which is secreted by the vaginal walls. […]

What lubes are safe to use with the condoms you guys sell?

Thank you for your question! At SSIS, we offer water-based, silicone-based and hybrid lube. All of these are safe to use with all of our condoms! Most condoms already come with silicone-based lube, and we offer one type of unlubricated condom as well. Even for lubricated condoms, adding additional lube makes them even more effective […]

What do I do if penetrative/vaginal sex is really painful for me? 

Thank you for writing to SSIS! Pain during sex is common and can happen for a variety of reasons. You could be experiencing pain due to a medical condition such as vaginismus, which causes involuntary muscle spasms of the vaginal walls. SSIS stocks vaginal dilator sets, which can help improve flexibility of the vagina and […]

Ask SSIS: How do I sanitize my menstrual cup?

Thank you for writing to SSIS! Menstrual cups are not stored in a sterile way, so it is important to sterilize them before the first use. This can be done by boiling the cup in a pot of water for about five minutes, using tongs or another utensil to make sure the cup doesn’t touch […]

Ask SSIS: How do I tell my partner that I have a STI?

Thank you for writing to SSIS! It is common to feel nervous about bringing up a positive Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) result, but here are some things to keep in mind when you tell your partner about it. First, learning about your result and next treatment steps can help you feel more prepared for your […]

Ask SSIS: ‘What do I do with his balls?’

Thank you for your question! Balls can be highly sensitive and can create immense pleasure, but also pain. Communicating during ball play is key! Everyone has different likes and preferences when it comes to playing with or stimulating balls. You can use your hands to create different sensations. For instance, you can gently pull or […]

Ask SSIS: How do I talk to my partner about getting STI tested?

Thank you for writing to SSIS! It can be important to talk to sexual partners about STI testing, and it is also common to feel nervous or unsure about how and when to bring it up. If you are sexually active, health professionals recommend getting STI tested (this includes for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and HIV) at […]

SSIS Question: What are your top vibrators?

Thanks for writing to SSIS! Vibrators are super subjective and it all depends on what kind of experience you are looking for! If you are looking for a beginner friendly vibrator for external pleasure,  the PlusOne Bullet Vibe may be a good place to start. Our smallest vibrator comes in blue with 10 different settings. […]

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How do I work on setting sexual boundaries with my partner? They always want to do anal but I don’t want to. Thank you for writing to SSIS! The sexual boundaries that you want to set with your partner are totally valid. If your partner is expressing a desire for anal sex that you’re not […]

How do I have sex if I’m on my period?

Your period does not have to stop you from having sex, but it may be slightly different than usual. It’s important to communicate with your partner and ensure that both parties are comfortable and consenting. Some people find it uncomfortable or messy, while others may enjoy the extra-lubricated sensation. Laying down a towel or having […]

How many times can I take Plan B in a month?

There is no limit to the amount of Plan B you can take in a month and no suspected health risks (including risk to fertility) associated with frequent use. However, there has been evidence that continual use can reduce its effectiveness. However, it is important to not minimize the effect such a high-dose hormone pill […]

Ask SSIS: How am I supposed to use your products when I have a roommate?

Thank you for writing SSIS! This is a great question, and something that a lot of college students have questions about. It may be helpful to start by having a conversation with your roommate. This could involve coming up with a weekly schedule to have the room to yourself, or creating a system to let […]

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Welcome back to the SSIS column, where we answer any and all of Brandeis students’ questions about sex, sexuality, identity and relationships. If you have a question you’d like answered in our next column, email ssis@brandeis.edu or leave a question in the Google Form link on the Student Sexuality Information Service Facebook page. Any and […]

Ask SSIS

Welcome back to the SSIS column, where we answer any and all of Brandeis students’ questions about sex, sexuality, identity and relationships. If you have a question you’d like answered in our next column, email ssis@brandeis.edu or leave a question in the Google Form link on the Student Sexuality Information Service Facebook page. Any and […]

Ask SSIS

Welcome back to the SSIS column, where we answer any and all of Brandeis students’ questions about sex, sexuality, identity and relationships. If you have a question you’d like answered in our next column, email ssis@brandeis.edu or leave a question in the Google Form link on the Student Sexuality Information Service Facebook page. Any and […]

Ask SSIS

How many times can I take Plan B? If I’m using it a lot can I take two?  Welcome back to the SSIS column, where we answer any and all of Brandeis students’ questions about sex, sexuality, identity and relationships. If you have a question you’d like answered in our next column, email ssis@brandeis.edu or […]