Thanks for reaching out! An STI (sexually transmitted infection) is a serious condition that can develop after sex; they can have symptoms, but most cases are asymptomatic. Most are curable, and all are treatable, but it is important to get tested for them to catch them early and start treatment! STIs can be transmitted through genitals, pubic hair, kissing and penetrative sex. This means that even if you use a condom with your partner(s), you still run the risk of having shared or received an STI. Something to consider is that if you have multiple sexual/romantic partners, you may want to increase the frequency of testing to once every three months. Additionally, communicate boundaries relating to comfort and expectations surrounding testing (how often, are you testing genitals, anal or urine).
Some ways to start a conversation around STI testing can include asking your partner about their sexual history and if they have ever been tested, or offering to go get tested together. In these conversations, it is important not to pass judgment or shame anyone, your partner or yourself. At the end of the day, getting tested is as important for your health as it is for your partner’s. If you still feel unsure on how to talk to your partner, feel free to stop by SSIS for peer support! We can provide a space for you to talk about your relationship, brainstorm ideas or even roleplay the conversation. Once you feel confident enough, stop by the Brandeis Health Center for inclusive, easy and low-cost testing options. We hope this answered your question, and you are welcome to stop by the office for more support!
